Pros and cons of bringing ladies home

[bangminton]

Good day folks, i did a search on this and didn't find anything so here goes...

Guys: what do you think about bringing ladies home (escorts, streetwalkers etc)? I guess the pros would be the cost and convenience but one of the cons is your peace of mind?

Ladies: Are you comfortable going to a client's home or do you prefer to check in a hotel/motel ? Again safety and convenience are 2 factors to consider here I guess

Reason I am asking is I have relocated to Barrhaven for almost 1 year now and there is not a whole lot of hotels out here for this hobby. I've been thinking about getting services at my own place, in my own comfort zone but I would like to hear some feedback...

P.S: Anyone here frequenting the C.E.R.B forum? I registered an username but have not been able to post or view anything.

Thanx

[tracey]

Good day folks, i did a search on this and didn't find anything so here goes...

Guys: what do you think about bringing ladies home (escorts, streetwalkers etc)? I guess the pros would be the cost and convenience but one of the cons is your peace of mind?

Ladies: Are you comfortable going to a client's home or do you prefer to check in a hotel/motel ? Again safety and convenience are 2 factors to consider here I guess

Reason I am asking is I have relocated to Barrhaven for almost 1 year now and there is not a whole lot of hotels out here for this hobby. I've been thinking about getting services at my own place, in my own comfort zone but I would like to hear some feedback...

P.S: Anyone here frequenting the C.E.R.B forum? I registered an username but have not been able to post or view anything.

Thanx

For C.E.R.B. did you get a confirmation e-mail if not contact the mod and I am sure they will fix the issue.

About having girls come to your place there is a good side as well as a bad one.

A few Good sides for client
You don't have to leave your house
It's free no hotel fee
Your in your own home so you will feel more comfortable

For girls
Some Girls like myself feel safer when going to a house because it's very rare that a client will be aggressive or out of line since they are in their own home it's not like they can get up and leave and not get consequences.
My friend was at a hotel about 3 years ago and she got her ribs and nose broken. When she was able to get herself together she went to the front desk to inquire who the person was and she wasn't able to get info because the person gave $1000 deposit and showed fake id. The hotel asked her to leave can you believe it.

Bad side for clients
Girls could steal from your home
At a hotel the most they could take is what you brought with you.
They can show up unexpectedly on another day when you least expect it.
In the past we had girls see clients and then clients decided to see them on their own. Of course they could no longer work with us. And then the girls would show up when they were broke even if the client didn't call them. And then the client would call us to have the girls stop showing up but by that time sorry but your on your own.
I am sure you will have a lot of replies to your post.
My 2 cents.
Kisses Tracey...

[Tracy-xxx]

I feel safer going to the clients home for the reason that tracey posted of not many people are willing to do much harm when I know where they live ( there are exceptions to every rule of course...) Then yes there are plus sides of going to a motel/ hotel. That being anonymity and not having to show people where you live.
I am sure that every city has their freaks, but I have had many poeple bring me to thier homes and I have never made some one regret this. I am sure though that there are girls like mentioned above, that may just decide that they want to show up cause they are broke.
I am from ottawa originally (way back when) and from what I remember, you are situated out of down town. I do not see a girl from downtown trecking all the way to barrhaven to bug you for cash, cause cash comes quicker downtown. On the though of the girl stealing, well, I like to think that girls are in this buisness for the exchange and I personally have never met a girl that has robbed the client in 6 years of work, so I believe these "treasures" are few and far between.
Personally I prefer if I go where the client is comfortable. Many people are nervous when they call a companion, So, if they are more comfortable and it is possible at their home, go there. If on the other hand you are more comfortable in a motel/ hotel or it is not possible in your home then I would suggest you rent a room closer to downtown and call/ get the girl from there.
I hope that helps.

[bangminton]

Thanks ladies for your feedback, you made a lot of good points.

I guess it would be different if I lived in an apartment or condo, in the sense that it's easier to blend in and in the odd cases that girls decide to show up unexpectedly, i can view them through the camera in the lobby and not buzz them in

It's kinda awkward with a home, i mean the last thing i want is for someone to make a scene and nosy neighbors start looking around, not to mention that my car is usually parked outside and I don't want any flat tire or damaged windshields! Or if one of the *drivers* or *pimps* (for a lack of a better word) start to show his muscles if certain things don't click then I don't know, i don't even want to imagine that scenario. Not to say it will happen because I have not experienced it but I can't rule it out.

I would like to believe that most if not all the ladies are generally well-behaved and they all have common sense and treat this as a business, but a bad apple would really throw everything off the track and that's why I have been hesitant about bringing somebody in my place.

Looking forward to hearing more opinions on this topic.

Thanks

[toy293]

Dont do it.


Your home is your sanctuary.

Let someone in and if things go sour then you can find yourself in a bind. At least with the hotel/anonymity you will still have your safe haven and privacy.

Now I know most girls are not going to be an issue.... but you NEVER know which one is going to flip on you.... so dont take the chance. Your private home is too important to risk. I understand you have a hotel issue... but pay the extra money and take the time to get a room out of your area if necessary.

[tracey]

Looking forward to hearing more opinions on this topic.

I am really surprised that not many people voiced their opinion on this subject maybe you should do a poll about this you might not get input but at least you can see a percentage between the 2.
Kisses Tracey...

[leprofdodge]

Home ? Never !

Specially if you are engaged (which most men here are)
Can you imagine yourself answering the door around 5:00 on a friday night watching movies with your wife, and Helllloooo it's me ! remember ??

I dont think so.....

Hotel that's it, that's all for me ! and usually on a business trip !

[Naughtylady]

I have to agree with leprofdodge. If you are married or otherwise attached, never at home. I hope you guys don't need a list of reasons.... :banghead:

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

[bangminton]

Think I will have to go with the majority here...i have decided not to take any chances and will resort to the customary hotel stays. I don't mind having some fun if I were still living in the apartments/condos but there are too many variables now.

Can anyone recommend a not-so-expensive and discreet hotel/motel close to the Barrhaven area ? I have seen the Bel-Air motel on Richmond Road, across from Local Heroes and also the Stardust on Carling, across from the Coliseum movie theatre...both is within driving distance from where I live

Any experience with those 2 joints ?

[fast times @]

there is also so choices in bells corners, a little closer i think

stayed in both places, stardust and bel air, you get what you pay for

both sometimes have girls working out of those places

i always liked the big place in bells corners,(soorry forget name, but its part of a chain) has indoor pool, and parking around the back away from the reception area,

[Peachka]

Best Western (Barons) is in BC.